Here is an account of my being an
uninvited guest or percipient in a Goan wedding..........
The whole world dropped their jaws for our unfettered existence as
unmoved bachelors in our early 30's. Cecil was fish-like boozer, his
sharp observation protected under his unkempt appearance and I was a
hassle free slouch refuting all the coercions to my bachelorhood
.........a degree below bachelor ship. A corner table in a cool bar did
justice to me until my eyes, red shot with over drunkenness fetched it
self a beautiful fixture- Donna Carolina. Unfortunately she happened to
be the bride. It wasonly then that I was introduced to Goan Wedding and
the culture these beach side merrier followed.
A perfect marriage in Goa
Marriages are made in heaven and venues in Goa. There is nothing like
attending wedding in Goa. The bride and her groom Dr Albetros poised a
perfect couple in their wedding suit. The bride's wedding apparel made
her look stunning in purple satiny maxie while the other half was
dressed in black suit with a bow tie. Besides the cynosure was a small
gang in best of their garbs, wearing ear to ear smile. It seemed a
perfect moment when all the hostilities were ceased, albeit temporarily.
''...put your left foot and shake it all about! Dooooooooooo the Boogie
Woogie''. I wanted to join happening party crowd and kept fantasizing
some fishy twists and tales of wedding. The sand as a marriage venue was
gripping and the dance floor overlooked the sea expanse. Goans are ready
with a perfect waltz and twists of their bods, they just need music and
a chance. Worries at the backseat of their mind, wedding or any occasion
means dancing their heart out. The warming gusto comes alive with
wedding couple step into a new phase of their lives with combination of
birdie dance and salsa. The contrast between the spirited young couple
up the front, and the resignedly one behind, was not lost on John, who
couldn't help but grin to himself.
Sun, sand, sea and food
What could have appeased me and Cecil anything more than food. Although
we had been delimited to just mouth watering aroma of the
carte du
jour that on the buffet table. The buffet was announced by the
master of ceremonies in his contrived American accent. The converging
que from all sides of table quickly reminded of flashy headings of
'Outlook Travellers - Goans identity is roosted in eating, drinking and
making merry'. A nostalgic Goan usually ends up reminiscing about the
taste of their grandmothers' sorpotel, the texture of a perfect bibinka,
or the aroma of a large glass of feni. Besides just the starters, the
main course includes of Pork Chips, Red Curry, Roasted Salad. Fooding
was much better while the young lass, who just touched their newfangled
twenties were like a drop of blue bay on the dried earth of our leisure
observation. We had another glass of whiskey.
The whole earth was the guest

They
do things differently at Goa, even marriages. The wedding vows exchanged
were coming to shape, the initial blushing started fading-off the
bride's face as she moved back and forth in her salsa. Slowly at the end
the lunch, above the din of whoops and screams, the sprightly crooner
spirited jazz improvised of classic Mando of love and betrayal strained
to compete. The most noticeable fact was that Goans are cordial out of
the way. The wedding, venue just looked in sync with time. At one time
the whole beach appeared to be wedding invitees.... hippies and faces
from across the world bedighted the wedding with beautiful expressions.
The beach mela embellished Donna's and Albatross's wedding and the sea
along with the sky and balmy breeze benignantly blessed the couple.
Writer's Account
Lucy
Lucy is a vacation consultant and tour impresario with our company.
A typical Taurean, she madly loves travelling, and India is her
favourite destination. She discloses her admiration for Indian women
and their dressing besides her love for spending evenings on sea
shores. Intensely infatuated by Goan wedding she jots a humorous
account of being a witness to one of the marriages in Goa. Read more
about a surprising account of Nilgiri trekking in
'Scaling
the unscaled heights' by her.
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